Savor the moment with your toddler

The best parenting advice I ever received may be “enjoy them while they’re young.” When you’re a parent with a toddler wrapped around your leg, that’s hard to think about. Your thinking about your picky eater, sleepless nights and blow-out diapers. In that moment I didn’t think what I was experiencing would be gone. But those years were gone in what seemed like a blink of an eye. Truly those moments go way too quickly! I did realize every stage brings wonder and awe to life. The advice I give parents is “savor each moment.”

Tips for savoring the moment

In our fast-paced world with same day delivery, it is even more important to savor each moment. Life with kids is full of great moments – the laughter and delight of catching a firefly, a snuggle and a hug before bed, and one more piggyback ride. Every day as a parent, you have a choice on where to focus. Here are some tips to help you savor each wonderful moment.

• Engage with your child. No matter their age, do something they love or find a common interest.
• Acknowledge “lasts.” Remember the last baby bottle or the last day of kindergarten.
• Live in the moment. “This” is the moment that is important.
• Take photos and video. They are priceless treasures.
• Really play together.
• Don’t rush time. Your child will walk. He will stop wearing diapers.
• Be intentional. Schedule movie nights, game nights and activities with the purpose of deepening the connection with your child.
• Handle your relationship with care. It is not about your child’s accolades, it is about your child.
• Use your time wisely. Make time for what matters.
• Accept snuggles and kisses and ask for more.
• Focus on your family.
• Say "I love you" as many times as you remember.
• Don’t over schedule.
• Be present physically and emotionally.